Marriage and Weather

It rained today.  I was sad.  The funny thing is, I really like the rain!  One thing that I know about me is that my mood is affected by the weather.  I really wish it wasn’t, and I am not sure how to change it.  But at least I know that if I am sad, and the weather isn’t nice, that’s probably why.  My mom says to take vitamin D!

There is one thing that I didn’t fully realize before I got married about Justin.  Justin can wake up at 7am and start working and not stop until he goes to bed at 3am.  I knew he worked a lot, but I didn’t really know how much.  The scary thing is that he works less now.  I want him to work.  He needs to work, and I know he loves what he does.  We spend time together watching tv shows we like to watch and eating dinner usually.  I don’t know what else we are supposed to do that doesn’t cost money and doesn’t feel like a waste of time to either of us.  The thing that frustrates me is that I work and go to school, and why can’t he work while I do those things?  I know that the answer is that as a programmer, you cannot schedule the best time to code.  It just happens.  It is hard trying to find a good balance between spending time together and working and I think we are trying to do that.  (But maybe it is just me that is trying to do that and he is perfectly happy.)